How To Handle Divorce: Forgive Her

This is the hardest step of all, but the most important in truly moving on with your life. If your divorce is anything like most divorces, both of you shared a part in the blame, and if you can forgive her, you can probably forgive just about anyone. Forgiveness is an important exercise for our well-being and mental health. Holding onto grudges might feel good right now, and it will certainly be easier, but the sooner you can forgive her, the sooner you can start working towards a better life.

We don't expect this to happen overnight. You're recovering from a very long relationship that has met an end. Taking this step will probably feel wrong and unjust at first, but trust that you are making the right decision. Once you cross over to the other side of forgiveness, you realize how much all of that hate was holding you back as a person.

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